life version 1.1 beta version

whose says its easy to be married? it takes effort... it takes hardwork, it is an art by itself.

when 2 become one,(or multiples become one...{insert parents' and in law's name here})

it is complicated, but its gona be interesting...

its heartwretching at times, but i am sure you will feel life like never before... so real, so tangible

the politics at work is as real as those at home...

in fact sometimes they can be as real as those in the drama serials.

i had seen some.

i have been working more hours than i sleep

i have been sandwiched in between bosses...

i am seeking a remedy in balance of life

is work that important? or am i just taking things too hard?

do we make today worse so tomorrow seems better?

am i going to be a better man?

am i going to give my wife a better life?

these things will come to pass...

wat is my five years plan?

couples of awards under my belt?

a big fat paycheque?

i dont know

but for sure i am gona be a dad of 5 year old (and another of 3 maybe).

life version 1.0

In my 31 years, there are times you gather

for 18 year old birthday, you gather.

for graduation day, you gather

for reunion dinner before chinese new year, you gather

for some old folks funeral, you gather....

There are times you are left alone...

the days when you have to brace yourself for national service...

the days you just break off with your girlfriend(boyfriend)

for some days when you just want to be left alone...

for now i am alone... 

its tough to be alone when you been living with someone for the pass two years

its tough and awkward....

to come home, and be greeted by a pair of ur slip house slippers

its weird when you are clueless what to do during the weekend.