how do you read me?

i got a enlightenment today...
how does an autistic reads the world??
its like everyone he speaks to is thru an msn filter or thru email as a medium
no expression or anyway they can read it from ur face... monotone...
everyone is jus an object... no parent no frens no relation...
they have no concept of wat is relative to them...
if u point a toy gun at one, they might think its for real...

so do we read one mind like a autistic if we choose to communicate with one another on msn or email...
unless u dont knoe that person..
we paint a picture of how we will c emoticons and how the recipents reacts to our message...
whether its a delayed reply or a pause in between...

so its less likely we feel foreign to it...

all this are sort of emotion implications we are conditioned to understand....
so
a "hello" "hello!" and "hello?"
to us it all sounds different...
but to a autistic... it jus another hello... no diff